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Thank you for reading!SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-14017300577198385302014-09-15T09:31:00.000-04:002014-09-15T12:18:25.684-04:00Take a Man on a Date Month!<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-S-q1wvMcCqk/VBbZbUEKLkI/AAAAAAAABuQ/M310S6PXVa8/s1600/Liz%2BBlog.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-S-q1wvMcCqk/VBbZbUEKLkI/AAAAAAAABuQ/M310S6PXVa8/s1600/Liz%2BBlog.jpg" height="320" width="320" /></a> <span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">A
friend of mine recently started dating someone. After their first date he asked
for a second by informing her that September was “Take a Man on a Date
Month."<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span> </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">The idea of taking a man on a
date made me start thinking about female assertiveness, gender roles, and
healthy relationships. I know several females who would be very uncomfortable
with the idea of asking a man out on a date—almost to the point of finding it
socially unacceptable.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">When I think
about healthy relationships, however, assertiveness and the ability to state
your wants and needs—as well as the ability to respect the wants and needs of
your partner—are very important. So simple, right? Well, not exactly so simple. In the past when I have asked
for the second date, my friends have looked at me like I was an alien from
Mars! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Also, in general, we know that clear communication, respect and boundaries in relationships are often easier said than done - which is why our youth need ongoing support and positive modeling in all relationships. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I sometimes wonder if a lack of assertiveness at the start of relationships
will lead to people being unable to state their needs later on in
relationships.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>While I am not currently
a parent, when I become one I hope that I can teach my kids to say what they
need and want and to not allow traditional gender roles to keep them from making healthy connections. Maybe I’ll even use “Take
a Man on a Date Month” to do it. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">by <a href="mailto:epolinsky@teenpregnancysc.org" target="_blank">Elizabeth Polinsky</a>, University of SC Master of Social Work Intern, SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy </span></div>
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<![endif]--><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Do you simply want to survive your
children's teen years? Or, would you like to have a more engaged, joyful
experience of parenting?</span></i><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;"> I stumbled across an interesting article in the 2014
winter edition of <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The Law of Attraction</i> magazine titled<i> Are you an Available Parent</i>? Dr. John Duffy specializes
in "maximizing satisfaction and minimizing conflict between parents and their
teenagers – what we call <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Parent-Child
Connectedness</i> in the teen pregnancy prevention world. Duffy describes being
an available parent as <i>acknowledging, accepting and challenging your teen
openly and without judgment. </i>Overall, the article was very enlightening and
even as a non-parent I can use some of the techniques with the young people I
come in contact with on a consistent basis. </span><br />
<br />
<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-NcL5jFpinVM/U_s1QFsVVrI/AAAAAAAABtY/XX4t4CySzIw/s1600/Mother%2Band%2BDaughter_small.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-NcL5jFpinVM/U_s1QFsVVrI/AAAAAAAABtY/XX4t4CySzIw/s1600/Mother%2Band%2BDaughter_small.jpg" height="213" width="320" /></a><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Here are a
few highlights:</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: Wingdings;"> </span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;"></span><br />
<div style="margin-left: .5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in; text-indent: -.25in;">
<span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">If
your teen isn't good enough in your eyes, they will throw in the towel on your
relationship as well which may lead to years of heartache, frustration and
joylessness. </span></div>
<div style="margin-left: .5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in; text-indent: -.25in;">
<span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">By
remaining available to your child during his/her teenage years, you lay a
foundation for a healthy, loving relationship with him/her in their adult
years. </span></div>
<div style="margin-left: .5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in; text-indent: -.25in;">
<span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Instead
of focusing solely on your teen's behavior, over which you exert little or no
control, focus on your behavior as a parent, which you have full control. </span></div>
<div style="margin-left: .5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in; text-indent: -.25in;">
<span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Use
your teen’s missteps and experiences as opportunities and teachable
moments. </span></div>
<div style="margin-left: .5in; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in; text-indent: -.25in;">
<span style="font-family: Symbol; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Symbol; mso-fareast-font-family: Symbol;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">·<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Don't
feel like your teen is always being oppositional for sport. It's a normal and
important part their development. </span></div>
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">
</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">by <a href="mailto:mtalford@teenpregnancysc.org" target="_blank">Meredith Talford</a>, Training and Technical Assistance Specialist, <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/" target="_blank">SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnanc</a>y </span><br />
<ul>
<li><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;"></span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;"><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">This
article is adapted from his book <i>The Available Parent</i>. For more
information visit <a href="http://drjohnduffy.com/">http://drjohnduffy.com/ </a></span></span><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;"> </span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: "Tahoma","sans-serif"; font-size: 10.0pt;">Dr.
John Duffy is not related our Director of Research and Evaluation, Dr. Jennifer Duffy. </span></li>
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<![endif]-->SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-13966953079696493112014-08-18T08:00:00.000-04:002014-08-18T08:00:08.505-04:00Six Months and Counting...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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So, next Tuesday marks my six month milestone with the SC Campaign. And those months have flown by. It’s been a busy time at the SC Campaign. Our 20th Anniversary Gala, followed quickly by Summer Institute, sprinkled in with Contraceptive Counseling, ICE, Seventeen Days, Reproductive Coercion, Leadership, Be Protective, Social Media and youth, training trips to San Antonio and Knoxville…WOW!! Busy is an understatement. And the fall looks even busier! I’m still learning about CEUs, nursing CEUs, MAPPS hours and all of the different processes we go through to get these approved. I’m so very thankful to all of our partners for their patience as I learn and adjust. And I’m especially thankful for Markessce Craft and Sara Lamberson for helping with all of the logistics.<br />
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We are excited about several new trainings we are offering this fall:<br />
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<li><a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/eventstrainings.aspx?event_id=107" target="_blank">Contraceptive Counseling Approaches for Adolescents</a> (we have three sessions available!)</li>
<li><a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/eventstrainings.aspx?event_id=113" target="_blank">Becoming an “Ask”able Adult</a></li>
<li>Safer Sex Intervention (event page coming soon!)</li>
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Along with some great standards:<br />
<ul>
<li>Making a Difference/Making Proud Choices</li>
<li>Safer Choices</li>
<li>Reproductive Health 101 </li>
</ul>
Check out our <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/eventstrainings.aspx" target="_blank">events page on our website</a> for more information about all of our workshops, and keep checking as we are adding more to our calendar daily.<br />
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by <a href="mailto:slindsay@teenpregnancysc.org" target="_blank">Shannon Lindsay</a>, Training Coordinator, <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/" target="_blank">SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy</a><br />
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SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-51400806894948387422014-08-11T08:00:00.000-04:002014-08-11T08:00:04.588-04:00It's National Health Center Week!It’s National Health Center Week – a time to celebrate those who work in health centers across the country, but specifically, I want to thank all of the hardworking individuals who give their time and effort in the health centers within our state. Here is a description of what this week is all about from the event’s website:<br />
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Health centers play an important role in the work of the <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/">SC Campaign</a>. Every day, our youth are exposed to messages about love, sex and relationships. <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/learningcenter/healthcareproviders.aspx">Healthcare providers</a> are in a unique position to offer accurate, timely information in a confidential setting. In addition, teens value the time spent with them and the unique counsel that is offered. So this week, give a shout out to someone via social media who works at a health center, send a fruit basket to a health center near you, or simply say THANK YOU to the men and women who work day in and day out to provide important services not just to young people, but to all citizens in South Carolina who need their help.<br />
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If you work for a health center, those is charge of the National Health Center Week want to hear from you. Share your stories, photos or videos on what makes your health center special. For more information, visit <a href="http://www.healthcenterweek.com/">www.healthcenterweek.com</a>.<br />
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In the technology-driven world we live in, teens especially, are being exposed to sex and substance use both on the Internet and through friends. This results in teenagers becoming more curious about experimenting with substance or sex at a younger age. Teens may view drinking, smoking and sexual activity as the “cool thing to do” simply from the way it is glamorized in social media and talked about by their peers. Young teens also learn habits from their older siblings simply by viewing photos or status updates on Facebook or Instagram. While we can't completely shield our children from everything, there are ways to educate them on these topics so that they remain safe.<br />
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There is also a strong correlation between substance use and teen sexual activity. A study completed by <a href="http://casacolumbia.org/">CasaColumbia.org</a> found that, “teens under age 15, who had ever had a drink were twice as likely to have had sex as those who didn’t drink.” The same can be said for teens, who drank ages 15 and up who were “7 times likelier to have had sexual intercourse and twice as likely to have had it with 4 or more partners than non-drinking teens.” [1] What many teens don’t realize is that these numbers don’t include only consensual sex in that age group. Drinking or using drugs might increase the risks for sexual abuse and even rape.<br />
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While you may believe that you have a good rope on what your teen is doing at all times, eventually they will be off to college and will need to make decisions regarding sex and substance use on their own. However, alcohol has lead to rising number of unprotected sex. In fact, according to data compiled in 2013 on CollegePrevention.org, “400,000 students between the ages of 18 and 24 had unprotected sex and more than 100,000 students between the ages of 18 and 24 report having been too intoxicated to know if they consented to having sex.”Unprotected sex can lead to a slew of problems such as unwanted pregnancy and sexual transmitted diseases. According to the same study, “97,000 students between the ages of 18 and 24 are victims of alcohol-related sexual assault or date rape.”[2]<br />
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So what can you do as a parent or trusted adult? Again, communication is key. Here are a few solid tips when approaching the subject with your teen.<br />
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<li><b>Remain calm and collected.</b> A screaming match between you and your teen will get you nowhere fast. When discussing these topics it’s best to remain calm and non-hysterical. This way your teen will engage in the conversation longer, and will not feel like they will get in trouble if they speak with you about their curiosity about sex or drug and alcohol use. The more you converse with your teen, the more comfortable you both will feel. As much as you may want to completely shut off the topic, it is best to inform your teen about situations they could get into when engaging in substance use such as overdoses, date rape drugs, sexual assault, unprotected sex or unwanted sexual advances. This way, if a dangerous situation does arise one day, they can be prepared to react accordingly.</li>
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<li><b>Keep on top of social media.</b> Depending on your personal preference you may not want your teen on social media sites. But if you are constantly being begged to permit it and you decide to give in, have some boundaries. Explain to your teen that anything put on the Internet can never be erased. Oftentimes teens don’t think about the long term and solely focus on the short term. While social media sites do have privacy measures, advise your teen against posting pictures of underage drinking or drug use. Another way to protect your teen is to add them as your friend. If you see anything unusual, ask your teen about it and how they feel casually. This might give you a better insight as to whether they are curious about experimenting with substance or not. </li>
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<i>This blogpost is by guest blogger, <a href="http://www.soberforever.net/" target="_blank">Saint Jude Retreats</a>, an alternative to traditional substance use treatment. Saint Jude Retreats provides a program for people with substance use problems that concentrates on self-directed positive and permanent change. Through the program, we offer the opportunity for individuals to self-evaluate and explore avenues for life enhancement.</i><br />
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[1] <a href="http://www.casacolumbia.org/addiction-research/reports/dangerous-liaisons-substance-abuse-and-sex">http://www.casacolumbia.org/addiction-research/reports/dangerous-liaisons-substance-abuse-and-sex</a><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><em>It takes a whole village to raise a child</em>, but...</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">it begins with a connection. This week marked the release of the <a href="http://www.aecf.org/" target="_blank">Annie E. Casey Foundation</a> sponsored <a href="http://www.scchildren.org/advocacy_and_media/kids_count_south_carolina/2014_kids_count_data_book/" style="text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">2014 Kids Count Data Book</a>, highlighting state-by-state progress, or lack thereof, around issues affecting children like education, health, poverty and safety. Thanks to our friends and colleagues at the <a href="http://www.scchildren.org/" style="text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">Children's Trust of South Carolina</a>, the agency responsible for South Carolina's data release, we are able to consider the well-being of children on a state and county level. South Carolina ranks 45th in the country for overall child well-being, which reflects very little progress in a positive direction. More than a quarter of a million children live in poverty, which contributes to the state's overall stagnation around health, education and the economy. The foundation is weak and even when we consider "bright spots" like teen birth rates (<a href="http://teenpregnancysc.org/ourprogress/20yearsofprogress.aspx" style="text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">which have fallen by 47% over the past two decades</a>), we realize just how fragile progress remains. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">The fragility of progress, and our often short attention spans, places unique responsibility on all of us - from youth-serving professionals and advocates to parents, faith leaders and government officials. I truly believe that most people care about children and their families, especially those who are in poverty, sick or marginalized in some other capacity. So, if most people care, then why do we continue to see such negative social and economic outcomes? Well, of course the answer is complicated, but I strongly believe the answer <em>at least begins</em> with our ability to genuinely engage and connect with each other.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Staff members from the <a href="http://teenpregnancysc.org/" style="text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">South Carolina Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy</a> were able to join the Children's Trust of South Carolina during a couple of media activities this past week and, as I am sure happens every year, the media wanted to know "now what?" We continue to have these data releases -notably, in the near future, the SC Campaign will work with state partners to produce data specific to teen births and the<a href="http://teenpregnancysc.org/impactofteenpregnancy.aspx" style="text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"> connection to other social issues</a>. But, how will we use this data to inform effective strategies, to collaborate (<a href="http://www.scchildren.org/about_us/programs/community_support_for_young_parents/" style="text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">like the Children's Trust of SC and the SC Campaign</a>) and to CONNECT with the community at large? How will we remind each other that we are ALL connected and impacted when a child grows up in poverty, when a child is consistently behind academically, when a young person becomes a parent, or when a family goes without healthcare? We should also consider the connections and overlaps between these issues so that strategies for improvement are comprehensive and reflect all of the factors that contribute to poverty, educational attainment, and health, etc.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Of course we cannot provide all of the answers with one data release or via a blog. But we can engage each other through community forums, volunteer efforts, mentoring and individual support for causes that effectively reach the homeless, the working poor, young parents, and so many others who often just need a stronger foundation from which to progress. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Let's be that village we so often reference in our speeches and conference themes. Let's also remember this great <a href="http://www.afriprov.org/index.php/african-proverb-of-the-month/23-1998proverbs/137-november-1998-proverb.html" style="text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">African proverb</a> is only a cliché if we fail to make the connections necessary to genuinely affect change.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">*<em>It takes a whole village to raise a child</em> - Igbo and Yoruba (Nigeria) Proverb</span><br />
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It’s no secret that the Hartsville Boys and Girls club does great work, but the Teen Center needed a serious <span style="text-align: center;">face lift. So when the Midlands class of the spring 2014 Diversity Leadership Institute was choosing a project to work on in Hartsville, S.C., the Boys and Girls club seemed like an obvious choice.</span><br />
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“We had three people in our group from the Darlington/Hartsville community and another who grew up there,” said Doug Taylor, Chief Program Officer at the South Carolina Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy and a member of the Midlands class. “It was a known need in the community that the Boys and Girls Club building was not in good shape.”<br />
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Over the past three months the group has spent time transforming the drab brown and white Teen Center into the ultimate teen hangout. The space is now an inviting bright blue, with new couches, a TV, and even study stations for the teens to comfortably do their homework. The teens will get their first peek at their new space on Thursday, when the teen center will hold its grand reopening.<br />
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But the Boys and Girls Club is about more than just giving teens a place to be. It’s about preparing our young people to be leaders in their community.<br />
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“Programs like this are so important because kids need access to caring adults when parents or guardians are at work,” Taylor said. “They need to be engaged and not just sitting around wasting time.”<br />
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That’s why Taylor’s group also made sure the Boys and Girls club staff had the resources they need to educate the teens on important life skills.<br />
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For Taylor, that meant working with the staff this summer to implement a teen pregnancy prevention curriculum, Making Proud Choices. The curriculum emphasizes safer sex by teaching teens about abstinence, condoms, communicating with their partner, and strategies to delay initiating sex.<br />
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The Boys and Girls Club staff will be able to sustain the program long after Taylor’s group has graduated, thanks to continued training from the SC Campaign and funds from the Department of Health and Environmental Control's Personal Responsibility and Education Program.<br />
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Taylor is confident the project can be sustained, thanks to the passion he found in the community. <br />
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“The best part was getting to meet and work with individuals who are committed to making their community better and who can follow through,” Taylor said. “It wasn’t ‘why don’t we try this, why don’t we try that’ they’re out there making it happen.”<br />
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Two years ago, I embarked on a journey to enhance my understanding of pregnancy prevention. I was approaching my graduation from my doctoral program at the Arnold School of Public Health at University of South Carolina and this amazing postdoctoral fellowship position presented itself at the SC Campaign. I had not worked directly in teen pregnancy prevention before, but had extensive experience in HIV prevention. After researching the SC Campaign, I knew that this position would be an ideal next step for my academic and professional career. <br />
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<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-TF9SYN1WVMw/U8PPOd2zqQI/AAAAAAAABqA/_vtdrlKzSFg/s1600/20140612_170531.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-TF9SYN1WVMw/U8PPOd2zqQI/AAAAAAAABqA/_vtdrlKzSFg/s1600/20140612_170531.jpeg" height="320" width="179" /></a>In June 2012, I officially became a part of the SC Campaign staff and managed the two-year collective impact project funded by The Duke Endowment. At first, I thought this position would be similar to an internship, little did I know that I was going to be responsible for coordinating schedules, creating PowerPoint presentations, developing meeting agendas, and facilitating team meetings. Right out the gate, I had a role at the SC Campaign. I was fully embraced by the staff and senior leadership of the organization and truly felt like I was a part of the team. My thoughts and ideas were always taken into consideration and some my ideas even came into fruition in the form of a webinar focused on lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) youth health and a corresponding publication. Additionally, I was able to interact with partners and stakeholders from across the state and learn about what investments are truly needed to address teen pregnancy in South Carolina. On the horizon, there is a new document being developed by the SC Campaign that will assist funders and organizations that want to invest in teen pregnancy prevention. Knowing that I contributed to the creation of this document is the culmination of my efforts and it feels good.<br />
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From the start, I felt like this postdoctoral fellowship position was a nice blend between research and public health practice. Given my background in qualitative research, I had the opportunity to conduct focus groups with parents of middle school students to examine their perception of school-based teen pregnancy prevention programs. I was responsible for developing the research protocol, research questions, facilitating the focus groups, and analyzing the data. One of the highlights of my experience at the SC Campaign, was when this research was accepted for publication in the Journal of Sex Education: Sexuality, Society, and Learning’s special issue dedicated to Dr. Douglas Kirby, an adolescent sexual health researcher who I have always admired.<br />
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I knew from the start that this was only a two-year position, but I never prepared myself for all of the knowledge and skills that I would acquire from the SC Campaign in that short period of time. I served as an adjunct faculty member at South University, became a Certified Health Education Specialist, and completed the United Way’s Blueprint for Leadership program. Having the opportunity to work with a staff as talented as the SC Campaign’s, I now feel I am equipped to advocate for teen pregnancy prevention and will continue to do so as my professional career develops.<br />
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This postdoctoral fellowship has provided a solid foundation for my career. The insight and feedback that I received from fellow staff was invaluable and for that I thank everyone at the SC Campaign for their input in my professional development. And on that note, I bid you farewell!<br />
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by India Rose, former Post Doctoral Fellow, <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/" target="_blank">SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy</a></div>
SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-80343574357452853222014-07-07T08:00:00.000-04:002014-07-07T08:00:10.786-04:00Freedom isn’t free. And neither is birth control. <a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-rYk5HAkh3b0/U7V6Ygz8YBI/AAAAAAAABno/LJc3CndNB5E/s1600/image2.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-rYk5HAkh3b0/U7V6Ygz8YBI/AAAAAAAABno/LJc3CndNB5E/s1600/image2.png" height="196" width="200" /></a>The fireworks stands are popping up on every corner reminding us of the holiday that celebrates freedom and independence. However, a recent Supreme Court decision was quick to remind us that individual freedom- freedom to decide how to plan for child-bearing and freedom to decide what is best for our bodies is often not free. On June 30, the Supreme Court ruled in a 5-4 decision that closely held corporations, such as Hobby Lobby, cannot be required to provide contraceptive coverage to its employees if they object based on religious reasons. Our CEO, Forrest Alton, released this statement about the decision, “…when that decision-making autonomy is taken away and barriers are introduced, whether those be cost or otherwise, it makes it less likely women will choose to use the most effective methods of contraception consistently.” So while many women work in positions that will allow them access to long-acting reversible contraception (i.e. the IUD-intrauterine device) at a free or reduced cost, women who work at Hobby Lobby will not have the freedom to do the same. Of course, they can pay for it out-of-pocket but given the long-acting nature of these methods, the cost is often upwards of $500.<br />
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I find myself in a position that some may think is contradictory: I think the Supreme Court’s decision was wrong, and I am also a Christian. So where does that leave me? Does that mean that I am a lesser Christian than the executives at Hobby Lobby? I like to think that I am a Jesus-loving, women's rights supporting, Hillary in 2016 believing, firearm toting, equal rights supporting Christian. And no, I don't think that phrase is an oxymoron.<br />
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First of all, contraception is not just used by “promiscuous teens” (as you will hear some people say) but it is used by an overwhelming majority of women – young and old. The reasons for use vary, some women use contraception for the benefits to their skin and complexion, while others use it for regulating menstrual cycles, while the majority of women use it for preventing pregnancies or family planning. The long-acting reversible contraception methods (i.e., IUD, the shot, the implant), are used by many women in monogamous, exclusive relationships or marriages so they can plan for children or allow adequate space between pregnancies to help decrease the chances of complications during and after pregnancy.<br />
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While I am always in support of anyone standing up for what they think is right (even though I may not agree), it seems that if Hobby Lobby wants to use religious opposition to some forms of birth control, doesn’t that mean that they should also refuse to cover medications for diabetes and high blood pressure caused by obesity since gluttony is also a sin? Or refuse to cover psychological services that result from a sin like adultery or pornography addiction? Or perhaps refuse to cover medication that is only needed because of a sin - like medication needed because of experience with drug abuse and addiction?<br />
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So as the holiday weekend approaches and we become consumed with fireworks, cookouts and dysfunctional family gatherings, consider this: the decision made by the Supreme Court directly impacted the freedom of a group of women who are employed with Hobby Lobby but even more so this decision was made loud and clear to all women who now feel more vulnerable to having their individual liberties stripped away by their employer. As anyone with a child knows, or anyone that has ever been around children, the ability to easily access and afford effective birth control options impacts everyone, not just us lucky ones born with a uterus.<br />
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<a href="http://time.com/the-best-form-of-birth-control-is-the-one-no-one-is-using/" target="_blank">Check out this TIME Magazine article to learn more about IUDs. </a><br />
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by <a href="mailto:skershner@teenpregnancysc.org" target="_blank">Sarah Kershner</a>, It's Your Game Project Coordinator, <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/" target="_blank">SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy</a>SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-19990501028700303472014-06-30T10:44:00.002-04:002014-06-30T10:44:46.067-04:00Are We Ready for What's Next?You may have heard that I’m leading a webinar this week as part of a series we have been conducting at the SC Campaign on leadership. When I agreed many months ago to facilitate this three-part series, I didn’t think much of it. Leadership is a topic that I enjoy learning about, reading about, studying and subsequently sharing what little knowledge I have with others.<br />
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The first segment in the three-part series covered the need for us to balance <a href="http://olc.teenpregnancysc.org/webinars/forrest3/lib/playback.html" target="_blank"><i>Leadership and Management</i></a> in our roles. The second, a discussion about <a href="http://olc.teenpregnancysc.org/webinars/march2014/lib/playback.html" target="_blank"><i>Leading in Difficult Times</i></a>. Both of these are topics that I discuss with our senior staff frequently, topics that are very salient, and frankly, topics that I feel pretty comfortable speaking about. (Note: check out the hyperlinks if you have interest in hearing the first two installments of this series).<br />
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<i><a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/eventstrainings/eventcalendar.aspx?event_id=91" target="_blank">Who’s Got Next?</a> </i>is the third and final chapter in the series, where I will discuss leadership transition and developing the next generation of leaders. My comfort level on the subject wavers as I continue to read and research in preparation for the webinar. My journey has been the definition of the phrase “the more you dig, the more you uncover.” A topic that I once thought I knew something about has become a mass of data, charts, opinions and hypotheses circling in my brain that make me more panicked than ever for what comes next. But I will do my best to synthesize my experiences and research on Wednesday to begin this all-important discussion.<br />
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We are on the cusp of a never-before-seen level of transition in the workplace. As the “baby boomer” generation begins to retire in record numbers, who will take their place? My gut tells me that this scene will be especially conspicuous in the nonprofit sector. <br />
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Are we ready? We better be…<br />
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At the very least, I hope you’ll join us on Wednesday as a beginning to this much-needed dialogue. <br />
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For more information and to register for this free webinar, <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/eventstrainings/eventcalendar.aspx?event_id=91" target="_blank">click here</a>.<br />
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by <a href="mailto:falton@teenpregnancysc.org" target="_blank">Forrest Alton</a>, CEO, <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/" target="_blank">SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy </a>SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-45484099750482872502014-06-23T08:00:00.000-04:002014-06-23T08:00:04.800-04:00Getting to Know our Priority Youth Specialist Rena Dixon<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I sat down with Rena Dixon, Priority Youth Specialist at the South Carolina Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy to learn more about how she became a public health professional. Rena has worked for the SC Campaign for four years and recently earned her Ph.D. in Community Health Promotion and Education from Walden University.<br />
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<b>Kemi:</b> <b> Describe your journey to becoming a public health professional focused on teen pregnancy prevention.</b><br />
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<b>Rena:</b> I went to undergrad thinking I was going to be an athletic trainer – very different from what I do now. They discontinued the athletic training program at my school so I had to figure out what I was going to do. At my school, you were put in health science classes to be pre-athletic training, or pre-nursing, or pre-physical therapy, so I stuck with my public health classes and I loved it. I absolutely loved it, it was great. I did my internship with young people in the Housing Authority [of Savannah] so I really bought into working with young people, which led to my first job working at Planned Parenthood in Georgia. I learned all about pregnancy prevention, STIs, and working with young folks. I moved away from that and really wanted to get back into it, which is why I made the switch to come back to working in sexual health all day every day.<br />
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<b>Kemi: So, young people – that was really your driving point?</b><br />
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<b>Rena:</b> Right. I really wanted to be a person that was a resource for folks about health information. You see so many people who don’t know the right answers or don’t know how to get the information. I thought it was really important to me as a person of color to be that voice for my own people, and my own neighborhood, and my own family. So I just kind of took off with it.<br />
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<b>Kemi: That kind of makes me think of Beverly Bond’s talk [at Summer Institute 2014] where you’re kind of waiting for somebody else to do it [be a resource in your community then decide] I’ll just do it [instead] because other people are probably thinking the same thing, that we need so-and-so to be a role model. </b><br />
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<b>Kemi: Can you describe a typical day being a Youth Specialist?</b><br />
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<b>Rena:</b> I travel a lot. A typical day usually involves me being in the car going somewhere to meet with our providers that we work with. I do have a unique position that I work with providers all across the state and not in one particular region. So, any given day I could be in Spartanburg, or I could be in Horry, or I could be in Charleston, or I could be in Lancaster or Rock Hill. But a typical day involves me driving to see one of our clinic partners or higher ed partners.<br />
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<b>Kemi: So, when you say our providers, you’re talking about mostly clinics?</b><br />
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<b>Rena:</b> Yes, my position is specialized to really focus on working mostly with clinic providers to help increase their capacity to provide teen-friendly services for youth coming in, or I work with higher ed campuses to help them address teen pregnancy on their campuses.<br />
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<b>Kemi: So, have they heard of us, or you just go in and you give them [information]?</b><br />
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<b>Rena: </b>Ninety percent (90%) of the people I work with closely are receiving some type of grant funding through us or we’re working with them on a particular project like the BlueCross BlueShield project, or the CDC project, or the PREP project, or now the PAF project. So, they’ve already been identified to work on that larger sub-project and I’m just doing my piece for that grant.<br />
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<b>Kemi: So, how did you spend this morning?</b><br />
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<b>Rena:</b> I was doing a speaker request for a group of about 300 young people on pregnancy prevention and STIs.<br />
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<b>Kemi: Do you do these often? Is it usually that large of a group?</b><br />
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<b>Rena:</b> Well, it’s kind of random. I think it’s always different for us because we don’t do direct service, but people still look to us to provide education and information in communities. So I do feel like we get a lot of speaker requests. Those of us in the office who are public health trainers and are comfortable getting up in front of groups usually get those requests. I did one two weeks ago and one about six months ago. It varies.<br />
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<b>Kemi: Do you prepare a PowerPoint, or what do you do to keep young people engaged?</b><br />
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<b>Rena: </b>I did a Prezi this time because there were so many young people, I felt like I needed some visuals and I think that’s a cool, different way instead of a boring PowerPoint. Two weeks ago, I did a game with the young people because I had a smaller group of about 30, and I did two different sessions so I was able to use a game called Fact or Fiction.<br />
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<b>Kemi: Are they [young people] pretty responsive?</b><br />
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<b>Rena: </b>Yeah, they are. You get a lot of questions. A lot, a lot of questions because some people don’t have anyone they feel comfortable talking to, or someone they can talk to who’s going to give them the right information.<br />
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<b>Kemi: How do you get your ideas for working with young people? By going to conferences?</b><br />
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<b>Rena: </b>I get ideas by reading a lot of research articles on what other people have already done, conferences and other presentations to hear what cool things other folks are doing, and also trial and error to figure out what works and what doesn’t work. In the spring, we did an event at Midlands Tech, and it was kind of off the fly, re-thinking what we were going to do. We’d participated in an event at USC two weeks before, and I didn’t think that it went well. There weren’t enough people there and folks weren’t engaged. So I completely threw out the window what I wanted to do and revamped it [for Midlands Tech], and it was fabulous because we had about 300 young people come through in those two days.<br />
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<b>Kemi: What do you think the difference was between the USC experience and the Midlands Tech experience?</b><br />
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<b>Rena:</b> The USC event felt more like a professional event. We still see college students as adults, but they still want to do fun stuff. So [at Midlands Tech] we had food, and music, and games, and that brought the people out. We had different tables and booths with different activities going on at each table so they could go through and play the games and get information and learn something while they were playing the games.<br />
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<b>Kemi: That sounds fun. Everyone likes a game!</b><br />
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<b>Rena:</b> Yeah, something different.<br />
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<b>Kemi: So, are there specific journals that you recommend or conferences?</b><br />
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<b>Rena:</b> Because I’m a member of the American Public Health Association (APHA), I like their conference. I think every public health professional should go at least once in their lifetime. It’s very big and can be very overwhelming. It’s cool because anything related to public health happens at this conference. So whether you’re thinking about oral health, or transportation in public health, or thinking about young people or sexual health, there’s something for everybody at APHA, which is why it’s so overwhelming. It’s a good experience. I read the Journal of Adolescent Health a lot. I read Contraception, another journal. I work with family planning and birth control, so I read that one a lot.<br />
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<b>Kemi: Is there a particular event so far this year that has motivated or inspired you?</b><br />
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<b>Rena:</b> Our events at Midlands Tech have been the ones I’m most proud of that we’ve put on this year so far.<br />
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<b>Kemi: Do you have any similar community events planned for the rest of the year?</b><br />
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<b>Rena: </b>I’m hoping we’ll be able to do something like that again in August with Midlands Tech as part of the BlueCross BlueShield project. Summer Institute always inspires me because it’s great to see all of our providers together and engaged. That’s a lot of fun for me too.<br />
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<b>Kemi: Are there any particular role models or did you have a mentors you’ve had in your career so far?</b><br />
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<b>Rena:</b> Yeah, I’ve had a couple. My committee chair for my dissertation [Dr. Jennifer Perkins] is one of my mentors and she’s fabulous. She’s been working in sexual and reproductive health for over 15 years. She’s a great resource. Dr. Kirby, when he was alive, was fabulous. I’m so happy I got the opportunity to work with him and listen and learn from him about all of his experiences. I’ve had the opportunity to meet Dr. Ralph DiClemente, he’s another the big public health/adolescent health/sexual health researcher. So I had my googly-eyed moment to sit down and ask him questions about where he started, working with the AIDS outbreak in the early 80s. So that was very cool for me to listen and hear from him. I’ve met some really good people who are just solid in public health, over the years.<br />
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<b>Kemi: Do you ever think it’s difficult when you’re talking to non-public health people, for people to really understand your passion?</b><br />
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<b>Rena:</b> [Laughs] Always. They don’t quite get it. I’m not even sure my parents really understand what I do. They know I work in the health field.<br />
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<b>Kemi: Right. Yeah, it is a little bit abstract for those of us who aren’t in the field as far as how you are really getting things done and how do you know you’re successful. So, is there any way you can put it into perspective for people?</b><br />
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<b>Rena:</b> Usually, you can think about making communities healthier. It’s the broadest sense of what I tell people. I usually say I work for a nonprofit that does teen pregnancy prevention and they automatically assume we work with young people, and I have to try to tell them that we work with people who are working with young people, and try to break it down that way instead of using the broad terms because most people don’t get it.<br />
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<b>Kemi: Yeah, it [public health] really affects so many parts of the community or life. I think that if people had more of an idea of what all the strings were that are connected to it, maybe people would understand that picture a bit more.</b><br />
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<b>Kemi: I have one fun question. I don’t know if you have an answer for it, but what is your spirit animal?</b><br />
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<b>Rena:</b> I don’t know. I don’t know what my spirit animal is. One of my favorite things that I’ve done in my career is that I went to an indigenous health learning institute in New Mexico for five days. I learned all about native health and how they incorporate western medicine into traditional healing. I got to visit some reservations and things like that. So I learned a lot about how that kind of thinking affects your wellness and healing, and how you have to be mindful of how to incorporate traditional healing with western medicine to reach some people.<br />
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<b>Kemi: That’s interesting to think about in terms of teen pregnancy because obviously contraceptives are physical thing. I wonder what kind of suggestions they would have in that specific realm.</b><br />
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<b>Rena: </b>When I asked them about it, sometimes they don’t necessarily see it as a problem because they look at a new life being part of a balance, part of a celebration. We see it a lot as a moral issue, not as a health issue. So from the moral perspective, they don’t see it as a bad thing, which was very interesting for me to hear and learn. They have so many different things going on with high rates of diabetes and high rates of suicide, a birth really is seen as a joy in their communities. I learned a lot. It just made me think, when you said spirit animal, it just made me think about the whole experience. It really helped define where I am and the way I think about things in public health because we may think about it one way, and other people think about it completely different.<br />
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We went to visit a middle school [in Albuquerque, NM] that had a problem with graffiti art. It got to the point where you had to go to the principal to get a key just to go to the bathroom. So they got some grant funding to provide youth with the ability to create graffiti art on walls in bathrooms and let us go see some of them. The youth respect the art therefore that stopped the tagging problem in the school.<br />
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<b>Kemi: That sounds like a term I’ve heard “meeting youth where they are,” and that every situation and community is different.</b><br />
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<b>Rena:</b> So, I don’t know how I find out what my spirit animal is. I can tell you my favorite animals are pandas. I like going to zoos a lot, so I try to go see them at different zoos. I see them at Zoo Atlanta and I see them at the National Zoo. I have a lot of stuffed pandas.<br />
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<b>Kemi: Yeah, well, sounds like maybe that’s your spirit animal. I feel like spirit animals, and this is just my guess, but an animal that mirrors you or has characteristics you would want to have. </b><br />
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<b>Rena:</b> [Laughs] Questions for the universe...<br />
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To view more photos from the conference, <a href="https://www.flickr.com/photos/123415596@N02/sets/72157645193206361/" target="_blank">visit our Flickr page</a>!<br />
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by <a href="mailto:slamberson@teenpregnancysc.org" target="_blank">Sara Lamberson</a>, Corporate Communications Specialist, <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/" target="_blank">SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy</a></div>
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Our 15th annual <a href="http://www.cvent.com/events/summer-institute-2014/event-summary-dc1fb395a78a4884a7f1ae7eaec9814d.aspx" target="_blank">Summer Institute conference</a> is only two days away, and the SC Campaign wants to know...<br />
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<li><b>12:30pm – 2:00pm</b> Murray Vincent Award Luncheon with keynote <a href="http://www.cvent.com/events/summer-institute-2014/custom-18-dc1fb395a78a4884a7f1ae7eaec9814d.aspx" target="_blank">Sarah Brown, National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy</a> </li>
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<li><b>12:00pm – 1:30pm </b> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span><i>BLACK GIRLS ROCK!</i> Luncheon with <a href="http://www.cvent.com/events/summer-institute-2014/custom-18-dc1fb395a78a4884a7f1ae7eaec9814d.aspx" target="_blank">keynote Beverly Bond</a></li>
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We can't wait to welcome each of our 379 attendees so we can salut success and push for progress!<br />
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For the agenda and full listing of breakout and power sessions, <a href="http://www.cvent.com/events/summer-institute-2014/custom-21-dc1fb395a78a4884a7f1ae7eaec9814d.aspx" target="_blank">click here</a>. </div>
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by <a href="mailto:slamberson@teenpregnancysc.org" target="_blank">Sara Lamberson</a>, Corporate Communications Specialist, <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/" target="_blank">SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy</a></div>
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SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-45412361055983987642014-06-02T08:00:00.000-04:002014-06-02T08:00:08.898-04:00Until We Meet Again...<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody>
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As I write this blog today, I will do my best not to melt into a puddle of tears. For the past seven years, I have served the <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/" target="_blank">South Carolina Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy</a> as its Director of Communications – a position that I’ve truly loved. I have had the opportunity to work with, and learn from, some amazing people – from Forrest Alton who took a chance with me when he made his first hire as Executive Director to Ashley Hunter who has showed me the ropes at the State House to Shannon Flynn and Sarah Kershner who have been my data gurus and more importantly, my friends. The staff at the SC Campaign is truly the best in the business, and I have been honored to be a part of this effort.<br />
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In addition to my colleagues within our office, I have also had the opportunity to work alongside phenomenal people like Don Flowers (my favorite Baptist Minister) and Bill Albert (CPO of the <a href="http://thenationalcampaign.org/" target="_blank">National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy</a> and also the person I aspire to be like). I met both of these men within my first couple of months at the SC Campaign and have turned to them for guidance ever since. I appreciate them more than they know.<br />
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In just a few short days, I will transition out of my full-time role with the SC Campaign and into a less formal, consulting role with the organization. While part of me is sad to go, I’m excited for what is waiting for me at home – two beautiful children, Lucas (4) and McLane (10 months). Since my son was born, I have seen just how fast time passes us by and have decided that I need to be more present for my children at this time. <br />
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I am very proud of what I have accomplished over the past seven years, but without a doubt, am most proud of the fact that I have built a top-notch communications department who will continue to produce A+ results. Kylee, Kemi, Kim, Carol, and Sara are my heroes – they work tirelessly to promote our brands, to spread positive messages of teen pregnancy prevention, and to recruit supporters for our agency. At the end of the day, it is these people who I got to work with every day that I will miss the most!<br />
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I came to the SC Campaign with very little knowledge of public health or teen pregnancy prevention, but I am leaving as a huge advocate and #1 fan of the organization! I would love to stay in touch with all of you so please follow me on Twitter and Instagram - @cbanks11.<br />
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Until we meet again… <br />
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<a href="mailto:cbanks@teenpregnancysc.org" target="_blank">Cayci Banks</a>, former Director of Communications, <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/" target="_blank">SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy</a><br />
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SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-83124666369455646022014-05-27T08:00:00.001-04:002014-05-27T08:00:00.757-04:00A Mother Was BornMarch 24, 2002. A little more than 12 years ago I began the most challenging role of my life: mother. Up until that point I had been a daughter, student, friend, girlfriend, coworker, and wife but none of those roles had prepared me for my new position. I remember bringing our daughter home from the hospital and being amazed that they actually let my husband and I leave with her. The fact that we were allowed – and expected – to assume complete responsibility for this brand new life, this sweet little baby girl, was astounding to me. I kept waiting for someone to come tell us that they had made a mistake, that clearly we had no idea what we were doing – because we didn’t – and that she couldn’t go home with us. But no one came, and off we went, and oh what a journey it has been! There have been so many adventures and new experiences, a long line of firsts: first smile, first tears, first words, first teeth, first steps, first friends, first arguments, first days of school, first dance recital, first swim meet, first school dance, first communion. We have celebrated and rejoiced with each new skill, each new accomplishment, and each new step in the crazy dance toward adulthood.<br />
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This spring we’ve added a new first – a first boyfriend. And with this new first, all of those feelings of uncertainty and ill preparedness from the day we brought our precious bundle of joy home have come roaring back! Have we taught her to be kind and caring? Have we taught her to be respectful of herself and others? Have we taught her about healthy relationships and love? Have we done enough to help her feel empowered to make good decisions about her personal health and well-being? And the honest answer is: I don’t know.<br />
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by <a href="mailto:slindsay@teenpregnancysc.org" target="_blank">Shannon Lindsay</a>, Training Coordinator, <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/" target="_blank">SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy</a></div>
SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-54814371519155397872014-05-19T07:14:00.003-04:002014-05-19T07:25:31.937-04:00And the Celebration Continues...<div class="p1">
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In all seriousness, we are counting down to <a href="http://www.cvent.com/events/summer-institute-2014/event-summary-dc1fb395a78a4884a7f1ae7eaec9814d.aspx" target="_blank">Summer Institute 2014</a>, where we will continue to celebrate 20 years of accomplishments in teen pregnancy prevention while pushing even harder for more growth and progress. We are excited to have more than 350 colleagues from across the state and the nation. This is a wonderful opportunity to highlight the 47 percent decrease in SC's birthrate but focus on the research, awareness, advocacy, and evidence-based programming necessary to keep improving as SC is still ranked 11 in the nation for teen births. While we will work hard in beautiful Charleston, SC June 11-13, we will also take time to party just as hard as we did in Columbia at our <a href="http://teenpregnancysc.org/ourprogress/20thanniversarycelebration.aspx" target="_blank">20th Anniversary Celebration</a>, especially during our celebration on Thursday night at the conference! Check out some conference highlights below:</div>
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<li>More than 30 breakout sessions featuring presenters from across the country</li>
<li>Friday Power Sessions, including information on motivational interviewing, leadership, teaching boys, communication, working with older youth and evidence-based interventions for young people</li>
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SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-6989010210612144102014-05-12T08:00:00.000-04:002014-05-12T08:00:00.591-04:00Keep Talking to Closed DoorsWhen my mom held her baby girl and thought about the future I’m sure she saw our relationship growing into something Gilmore Girlesque when I became a teenager. I’d tell her about my first crush while she painted my nails. I’d cry on her shoulder and we'd pig out on ice cream when I got my heart broken. Reading my diary would never cross my mind because my life, to her, would be an open book.<br />
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Instead she got me. An introvert who thinks pouring my heart ranks slightly below a root canal on the list of things I’d rather not do. Even in the height of my teenage angst, I’d be much more likely to grab my running shoes than I would my cell phone after a tough breakup.<br />
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That had to be hard for a touchy-feely, extrovert like my mom. But to this day I’m amazed that she has never stopped letting me know she was there if I needed her. She kept asking questions even when I gave her one-word answers. When I got annoyed and slammed my door, she’d slip a “thinking of you” card under it. She instituted a mandatory call-home-on-Sundays policy when I moved out and still sent a card when she knew I was struggling.<br />
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As annoying as I thought it was when I was a teenager, I so appreciate it now. My whole life I knew that there was always someone I could go to with my problems. Having that security gave me the courage to move halfway across the country, try new things, be willing to accept myself for who I am, have the courage to fail, and the faith that I would eventually succeed.<br />
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by <a href="mailto:kperez@teenpregnancysc.org" target="_blank">Kylee Perez</a>, Communications Specialist, <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/" target="_blank">SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy</a>SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-11984715195769340632014-05-05T08:00:00.000-04:002014-05-05T08:00:00.887-04:00Tomorrow is Midlands Gives!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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The SC Campaign is participating in <a href="http://www.midlandsgives.org/">Midlands Gives</a>, a local, 24-hour online giving challenge lead by <a href="https://www.yourfoundation.org/">Central Carolina Community Foundation</a> TOMORROW, May 6! This event is designed to encourage friends and neighbors to support their favorite causes and organizations right here in the Midlands. <a href="http://www.midlandsgives.org/#npo/south-carolina-campaign-to-prevent-teen-pregnancy">Click here to donate to the SC Campaign</a>!<br />
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<a href="http://www.midlandsgives.org/">Donate $75 or more on May 6</a> and get a FREE, limited-edition Jonathan Green poster (pictured below) to commemorate the SC Campaign's 20th Anniversary! Posters signed by Jonathan Green will be sold at the <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/ourprogress/20thanniversarycelebration.aspx" target="_blank">20th Anniversary Celebration</a> on May 7 for $100 and unsigned posters will be $50, so make sure to get yours fast!<br />
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<a href="http://www.midlandsgives.org/">Click here to donate to SC Campaign for Midlands Gives.</a><br />
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by <a href="mailto:slamberson@teenpregnancysc.org">Sara Lamberson</a>, Corporate Communications Specialist, <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/">SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy</a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04390407506925824077noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-53096811037211507902014-04-28T08:00:00.000-04:002014-04-28T08:00:13.051-04:00The Path to PublicationOver the years, I have learned that it takes a lot to get your research published. Not only does it take guidance, rigor, and insight on the front end to conduct the study, but it also takes strength, dedication, and persistence to get the research published. Almost 18 months ago, the SC Campaign conducted focus groups with parents of South Carolina middle school students to examine their perception of school-based teen pregnancy prevention programs. While data collection only took a few months, data analysis, interpretation, and manuscript development took a little bit more time. The research team and I worked tirelessly on drafting a quality manuscript which we submitted to the <i>Journal of Sex Education: Sexuality, Society, and Learning</i> special issue dedicated to the work of Dr. Douglas Kirby.<br />
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Now, some of you may know about Dr. Kirby, but for those who don’t I want to share just how much of a pioneer he is to the field of adolescent sexual health. As a graduate student at the University of South Carolina, I cited Dr. Kirby’s work in so many of my research papers focused on parent-child communication, HIV prevention, and adolescents’ engagement in risky behaviors. In my dissertation research, I cited Dr. Kirby’s work more than 15 times, more so than any other researcher in the field. He is a true pioneer in reducing adolescent sexual risk. Dr. Kirby authored more than 150 articles, chapters, and monographs. He also authored “Emerging Answers” and SC Campaign staff served as co-authors in one of Dr. Kirby’s final publications, “Reducing Adolescent Sexual Risk: A Theoretical Guide for Developing and Adapting Curriculum-Based Programs.” Dr. Kirby is one of the <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/ourprogress/ourhonorees/drdouglaskirby.aspx" target="_blank">SC Campaign’s honorees</a> (being honored posthumously) for this year’s 20th Anniversary Celebration for his work in teen pregnancy prevention and his contributions to the SC Campaign.<br />
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Now that you know a little bit more about Dr. Kirby, you can see why publishing in this special issue was so important to me. I submitted an abstract to the journal and was invited to submit a full manuscript, which the co-authors and I had already prepared. We submitted the manuscript and weeks later, received the editor’s decision and feedback from the manuscript reviewers, and accepted pending major revisions. Overall, their feedback was positive, but they provided us with more than five pages of feedback. At first glance, this overwhelmed me and seemed like an impossible task to complete, but overtime the research team was able to address every comment. As with each manuscript that I have written (and published), this experience taught me to be persistent and to stay the course. Now after nine months of writing and revising, our manuscript, "Parental Support for Teenage Pregnancy Prevention Programs in South Carolina Public Middle Schools," has officially been accepted for publication in the <i>Journal of Sex Education’s</i> special issue dedicated to Dr. Kirby. This is a huge accomplishment for the SC Campaign, who worked with Dr. Kirby for 20 years, and this publication has become the highlight of my post-doctoral fellowship here at the SC Campaign. <br />
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by <a href="mailto:irose@teenpregnancysc.org" target="_blank">India Rose</a>, Post Doctoral Fellow, <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/" target="_blank">SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy</a>SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-3579439530759196842014-04-21T08:00:00.000-04:002014-04-29T08:45:04.317-04:00It's Almost Time to Celebrate!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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The <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/ourprogress/20thanniversarycelebration.aspx" target="_blank">SC Campaign's 20th Anniversary Celebration</a> is right around the corner and we've got lots to be excited for! Here, let me set the stage for you...<br />
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As you pull up to the <a href="http://www.columbiamuseum.org/" target="_blank">Columbia Museum of Art</a>, you will hear the rhythmic sounds of the Logan Elementary School Steel Drum Band playing in the plaza. You can dance right out of your car and onto our red carpet and leave the rest up to the nice gentlemen of <a href="http://southernvalet.com/" target="_blank">Southern Valet</a>. Boogie on up to the front entrance, <b>but WAIT!</b> Don't forget to get your photo taken in front of our special backdrop. You will also want to pick up these glam shots at the door at the end of the event. </div>
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Upon entering the art museum, you will be greeted by some friendly SC Campaign faces who will check you in. You will notice a gorgeous, limited-edition <a href="http://www.jonathangreenstudios.com/" target="_blank">Jonathan Green</a> poster available to purchase, and only 100 are signed, so don't delay!</div>
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Grab a drink and some hors d'oeuvres, provided by <a href="http://www.classiccateringsc.com/" target="_blank">Classic Catering</a>. Or if a raw bar is more your style, pick up some oysters from <a href="http://www.oysterbarcolumbia.com/" target="_blank">Pearlz Oyster Bar</a>. Sip and nibble while browsing the silent auction items, which include: </div>
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<li>Two VIP tickets to <a href="http://thecolbertreport.cc.com/" target="_blank">The Colbert Report</a> in NYC</li>
<li>Two tickets and pit passes to the <a href="http://www.darlingtonraceway.com/Tickets/Events/Bojangles-Southern-500.aspx" target="_blank">2015 Bojangles' Southern 500 NASCAR race</a></li>
<li>A culinary basket from USC's first lady Patricia Moore-Pastides</li>
<li>Artwork <a href="http://www.leotwiggs.com/Home_Page.html" target="_blank">Dr. Leo Twiggs</a> and <a href="http://www.ottoneals.com/" target="_blank">Otto Neals</a></li>
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If none of these auction items pique your interest, <a href="http://teenpregnancysc.org/ourprogress/20thanniversarycelebration/auctionitems.aspx" target="_blank">check out the rest of the list!</a><br />
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After you've perused all of our wonderful items, stop by the honoree area and read about the 20+ people who have made a huge impact in teen pregnancy prevention South Carolina over the past 20 years and make sure to introduce yourselves when you see our honorees on the dance floor. <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/ourprogress/ourhonorees.aspx" target="_blank">Maybe you know some of them already!</a></div>
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Speaking of dance floor, grab another drink and head over to see <a href="http://therootdoctors.com/" target="_blank">The Root Doctors</a>, they will be playing your favorite covers all night long! And while you're over there, make sure to duck into the Orientation Gallery and check out a video that features all of the <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/ourprogress/ourhonorees.aspx" target="_blank">SC Campaign's honorees</a> of the past 20 years. </div>
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After you've won a round of golf with Darius, danced so hard that you had to take your shoes off and filled up on delicious morsels, you may be thinking about heading over the afterparty at the <a href="http://www.starwoodhotels.com/sheraton/property/overview/index.html?propertyID=1783" target="_blank">Sheraton</a>, only a couple blocks away. But don't forget to pick up your red carpet photo!</div>
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SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-35694757373023418562014-04-14T08:00:00.000-04:002014-04-28T14:37:58.036-04:00Pampers & Pinot Grigio: Musings from a new mom<br />
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A little over four months ago, I met someone who completely turned my world upside down. This someone came into the world at 9.5 pounds, screaming and hollering, and showering us with his affection (literally peeing everywhere). This “someone” is my son, McSwaine (Mac) Kershner. After years of dreaming and praying, we finally met our darling little boy and my world hasn’t been the same ever since.<br />
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You see, everyone told me about the sleepless nights, the golden showers at 3am while changing a diaper and the “fourth trimester” bowl of pudding that was once my bikini-ready stomach (who am I kidding, I was never really bikini ready but I would sure as heck rock one). What no one told me about was the punch-drunk love that you feel for this screaming, hollering, pooping little hot mess. I had some rowdy days in my past but this kind of high – the high that you feel when you look out at the world from your child’s eyes, the kind of high that you feel when you snuggle up with that little butterball for an afternoon nap, the kind of high when you root in those neck-rolls and soak in that sweet baby smell – that high surpasses any street drug my friends, I am talking about the good stuff.<br />
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I was naïve to think that having a baby wouldn’t change me. It did. It totally did. I was particularly naïve to think that my husband and I would just bounce back into our social life (even though it was pretty mediocre to begin with anyway). Unfortunately bar stools don’t securely hold a car seat (I have tried) and people seem to frown upon having a baby in bar. I also find myself more cautious than ever before, always looking out for things that could potentially be a danger to Mac. My husband has always been this way, he was deployed overseas twice as a Marine and is now a State Trooper so his nature is to be overly protective...living by the mantra “better to be judged by 12 than carried by 6” (I basically married the Marlboro Man). I, on the other hand, always assumed people were good and that the world was made of fairy dust and sprinkles. But after having Mac, I won’t even pump gas with him in the car…too many crazies lurking around that might steal my baby (I have obviously watched too many Lifetime movies). I also find myself more selfish of my time; moments with Mac are limited so I have learned to say “no” to things that aren’t making positive contributions in our lives. I have also somehow managed to exponentially increase my tolerance for body excretions and other fluids that spontaneously project from a baby’s body (where does it all come from anyway!?). I have learned to chill out and not take life too seriously; I mean how can I be serious when I am not exactly confident if I remembered to put on deodorant? I have also learned to love myself the way that Mac loves me. The “fourth trimester” is real, it is this cruel joke that the universe plays on you. For nine months, I was a human tape worm eating whatever I wanted because “I was growing a baby” and then one day I have the baby and I am confused when I am holding the 9.5 pound baby but I am still carrying 60 pounds of “pregnancy weight,” I mean shouldn’t the doctors remove the nice padded muffin-top that I made <br />
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solely for the baby?!? So here I am, wearing every kind of Spanx invented but I am learning to love my body the way that my child does – without flaws or flubs - just pure love and joy. To be honest, I think Mac just views me as one big udder, so that is not helping my self-image but I am learning to love my body just the way it is (this realization is a tough one). Having a baby also changed the way I viewed other people because I am reminded those those people were once children who just needed love, attention and someone to believe in them. Just think how different our world would be if every child had someone to love them, provide for them and believe in them (cue Michael Jackson’s “We are the World”).<br />
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Having a baby is one hell of a roller coaster ride that no advice or baby book could have prepared me to experience. I still have no idea what I am doing and there are days that I have cheese balls and wine for dinner and forget to wash my hair (for four days straight). But then there are moments where I hear my sweet boy giggle or look up at me with a wide-eyed grin that make all the sleepless nights and delirious days worth it.<br />
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It is the scariest ride of my life but I keep going back for more with my hands held high in the air and my feet off the ground praying that it never ends.<br />
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by <a href="mailto:skershner@teenpregnancysc.org" target="_blank">Sarah Kershner</a>, It's Your Game Project Coordinator, <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/" target="_blank">SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy</a><br />
<br />SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-13068579706734069372014-04-08T08:00:00.000-04:002014-04-08T08:00:09.056-04:00Tattoos and Teen Pregnancy?I love analogies. Complicated ideas make more sense to me when broken down into basic, real-life applications or situations I understand, and I find myself assigning symbolic meaning to little day-to-day things. I often use analogies in my work with young people because, just like me, the analogies help them to connect with difficult concepts. That’s where my new tattoo comes in…<br />
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I’m not someone who people would really expect to have a tattoo. I’m fairly clean-cut, conservative and traditional. But I actually have 3 tattoos – each one gotten about 8 years apart. I’ll never forget the reaction my parents had when they saw my first one during my freshman year in college. Shock is the kindest word to describe it. My mom eventually said to me, “I guess I never thought to tell you not to get a tattoo.” My mom understood that while a tattoo may seem like a good idea at the moment, it’s something permanent – an image that sticks with you for life. Even with the modern miracles of laser treatment, some remainder of the tattoo always exists. Getting a tattoo is not something that should be taken lightly or decided on in the heat of the moment when it’s something you’ll live with forever.<br />
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And here’s the analogy. Sex is like that. Having sex is something that will stay with you forever. When it comes to teen pregnancy prevention, we often focus on what happens from the waist down, but there are tremendous emotional and spiritual consequences to sex as well. Connecting so intimately with another human being affects you permanently regardless of potential for pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases or use of contraception. We should be talking more about this with our young people to help them understand that having sex is not something to be taken lightly or decided on in the heat of the moment. No matter what the world around us may portray, sex is a big deal and should be treated as such.<br />
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Fortunately, I’ve never regretted any of my tattoos. Each one represents a specific period in my life and holds special meaning for me, but maybe we could use the tattoo analogy to help young people understand sex on a different level. Sex is not meant to be bad or dirty. But sex IS a big deal. It’s a permanent, forever thing that can’t be taken back. And, just like with tattoos, making the decision to have sex with someone is not a decision you want to grow up to regret.<br />
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by <a href="mailto:dbecker@teenpregnancysc.org" target="_blank">Dana Becker</a>, Spartanburg Community Mobilization Coordinator, <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/" target="_blank">SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy</a>SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-12187746503620335802014-03-31T08:46:00.002-04:002014-03-31T08:46:46.869-04:00Wear Jeans, Raise Awareness about Teen Pregnancy<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Raise awareness about National Teen Pregnancy Prevention Month with us this May! Every year during Blue Jeans for Teens, we at the SC Campaign wear jeans in the office for $5/day or $20/week to help raise awareness and support for teen pregnancy prevention efforts in South Carolina. We’d love for you and your organization/business/community group to join us this year for 1 day, 1 week, or the entire month of May. We will provide stickers for participants to wear on the days they wear blue jeans for teens. Participating in Blue Jeans for Teens 2014 is easy! Here’s how:<br />
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<a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/getinvolved/donate/bluejeansforteens.aspx" target="_blank">Click here for more information and to view past participants.</a><br />
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Thank you to everyone who has dedicated their time and effort to teen pregnancy prevention throughout the years. We truly appreciate you and look forward to raising awareness about teen pregnancy together in May.<br />
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SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4155576819828221542.post-30396543232189756162014-03-24T08:00:00.000-04:002014-03-24T08:00:09.549-04:00A Letter to My 16-Year-Old SelfDear 16-Year-Old Me,<br />
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Hello there! I’m you, 10 years in the future. Yep, you sold out and went to college and got a real job instead of becoming a rock star like you thought you would. It’s okay. At this point in your life you’ve already mourned that dream and decided you don’t have the tolerance to live in a van for months at a time. You like stability and going to bed early now. In fact, you even voluntarily attended--get ready for this--GRAD SCHOOL.<br />
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I know, I know, you don’t believe me. You’re sitting in algebra right now, wearing those skater shoes from PacSun that Mom tried to throw away because they were so old but you went and fished them out of the garbage without her knowing. You’re probably going to your shift at Dairy Queen after school where you’ll mumble under your breath about how much you can’t stand the ho-hum of suburbia. When you get home Mom will ask how your day was and you’ll answer her in as few words as possible, then retreat into your room and turn on the stereo. You’ll probably fall asleep thinking about Joe, your first boyfriend.<br />
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I have so much to tell you, young me, and I’m not quite sure I can convey how desperately I want you to listen. You don’t do that very well, do you? You’re right about everything, because you think growing up in suburban New Jersey has bestowed upon you all the worldliness one could hope for. But stay with me here.<br />
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You’re going to move to South Carolina after college and realize you had a very privileged childhood. You’re going to start listening to country and you will like it. You will adopt an overweight orange cat. You’ll love him. And you’ll also start working at the South Carolina Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy, where you’ll help communities encourage their teenagers to make smart choices. And when you’re sitting where I am right now (and you will be, because you’re me!) you’re going to think about those kids you’re trying to reach. You’re going to wince when you remember just how invincible you thought you were, when in reality, you were just one bad decision from having it all turn out so differently. You’re going to want those kids to listen.<br />
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You’ll see the efforts the SC Campaign is trying to make and you’ll pray those kids realize there is so much more to life than high school. You hope they won’t be like you and take their education for granted. That they’ll have enough wisdom and foresight to know that the decisions they make now will follow them into the future.<br />
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How do I know all of this? Because I was you once, and let me fill you in on a few things. First, Joe is going to dump you. In the hallway. On your way to algebra. You’ll be devastated, you’ll write some bad poetry, but trust me, you’ll get over it, and by the time you’re here you won’t even remember why it hurt so much.<br />
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School is important. Stop asking when you’re ever going to use equations in the real world and just study, for crying out loud. You’re not bad at math; you just need to work harder than everyone else. Keep on truckin’ --you’re going to get an A in graduate level statistics.<br />
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Your friends aren’t the most important people on the planet. There are things you’re doing now that you’ll regret later. Mom and Dad were right about mostly everything. Oh, and Mom? You’re only going to have another eight years with her. Try not to take her for granted.<br />
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You won’t get this letter in time. But hey, that’s why I got to write it.<br />
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Love,<br />
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by <a href="mailto:apollak@teenpregnancysc.org" target="_blank">Amanda Pollak</a>, Graduate Assistant, <a href="http://www.teenpregnancysc.org/" target="_blank">SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy </a>SC Campaignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07554062882628616572noreply@blogger.com0