Saturday, May 25, 2013

Our 2013 Road Show Shenanigans

As many of you could tell from following our social media and our website, we have been out of the office for the last few weeks.  The SC Campaign staff have been traveling around South Carolina to help raise awareness, host community meetings, and promote our teen website, CarolinaTeenHealth.org. at over 90 events the first few weeks of May.

A lot of great things came out of these meetings, including having communities become more dedicated to the issue of preventing teen pregnancy. And that has been well documented through the photos posted on our facebook page. But what happens behind the scenes?  Over 3,000 miles were traveled. Countless hotels were visited, multiple fast food chains, and even more gas stations, but the real story comes from the SC Campaign crew themselves.  So because of this, we present to you, ROAD SHOW SHENNANIGANS!

To get us off on the right foot, we have SC Campaign CEO, Forrest Alton, showing how we can use alternative forms of transportation for our statewide travel! We just need to make sure we have enough quarters to make the trip!

Our next photo is probably more confusing to us than anything. What is so special about this roof on a building in the upstate? Whatever it is, they must have had too many people climbing up with out permission. We just have one more question, does the owner charge for a trip up to the roof? 
When traveling around the state, we get to see a lot of different things. Beautiful pastures, scenic views of our state, and amazing small communities.  Some of the other things we get to see are a lot of parking lots and a lot of BAD parking jobs. This one was the worst...


Anytime you are putting so many miles on the pavement, you should expect to encounter standard highway fare, fast food, shredded tires, and State Troopers. Yes, that is a photo of a State Trooper pulling one of our SC Campaign staff vehicles over. Apparently we were too excited to get to our new event. Thankfully, he understood, gave us a warning, and we took our lead foot off the gas pedal.
One final SHENNANIGAN was a FIRST this year for SC Campaign staff. While waiting for a news appearance, the entire station lost power...ten minutes to live broadcast. Never before had we been privy to the behind the scenes chaos that is LIVE news as we were that day. Flashlights were brought out, the generator was examined, and the next seven minutes were nail biters, but three minutes to air, the lights came back on, the anchors took their places, and it was 3, 2, 1...."We have here with us today Forrest Alton, CEO of the SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy..."








Even through all of our travels, we still found things to laugh about, things to learn about, and people to care about. Road Show 2013 was as big a success as ever! Even if it did start out on a pig.




Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Melissa Keeps it Moving


Many Americans do not learn what survival means until after college when their parents stop supporting them financially.  Even then, many twenty-somethings still call mom or dad for comfort after a bad day or to seek advice before buying a car or first home.  Having grown up in foster care, Melissa did not have parents to lean on.  At 18 years old, Melissa’s family consisted of close friends.  In October 1996, Melissa gave birth to her son, Issaiah.  He then became her family and she, his “keeper.

More than a decade before MTV’s 16 and Pregnant, 18-year-old Melissa Rodriguez shared her story of teen pregnancy and child birth on a radio segment called Radio Diaries.  The program first aired in 1996 on NPR’s All Things Considered and featured teens telling their life stories into a tape-recorder.  Last week, NPR aired Melissa’s follow-up story as part of the series Teenage Diaries Revisited (recorded in 2012).

Photo by David Gilkey/NPR
In the early years following Issaiah’s birth, Melissa discovered the beauty of motherhood as she marveled at her son’s smile and his wiggle dances.  But she often felt tired and wished for someone to share the parenting duties so she could take a walk or smoke an occasional cigarette.  Like most teen moms, she regretted having sex at a young age and wished she would have waited to have her son.

To pay the bills, Melissa worked as a secretary for $6 an hour before signing up for government assistance receiving $400 and $120 in food stamps each month.  The welfare program allowed her to spend more time with Issaiah, but her monthly allowance did not help her get ahead.  So she started stripping to make up the difference.  The extra income enabled her to earn a college degree and ultimately attain a day job.  Today, she works as a customer service representative with a cable company and loves fixing problems for people.  “It’s my calling,” she says.

In Melissa’s 2012 recordings, she talks about the challenges of raising a son with Cerebellar Ataxia, a neurological condition that interferes with balance and coordination.  Although Issaiah (now 16 years old) grew out of his physical ailments, he struggles to retain information.  Melissa also has a second son, six-year-old Tyrone.  She raises both boys on her own.

Melissa is a survivor, and she knows it.  What 18-year-old Melissa might not have known is that chances were pretty good that she would become a teen mom. Older teens (18 – 19 year olds) have the highest rates of teen pregnancy, as do low-income teens and those living in foster care.  Melissa’s life could have turned out a number of devastating ways.  She could have become addicted to drugs or ended up living on the streets.  And while Melissa’s life is not easy, she has a family and job she loves.  Something inside tells her to “keep it moving,” she says.  Something somewhere gives her hope.  

by Kemi Ogunji, Executive and Development Assistant, SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy 

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

So this happened...#whatwasIthinking



I don’t generally meet a stranger. Ask my friends. Not that I don’t meet new people, I meet them all the time, but I generally make quick work of finding out who they are and what they are about.  That does not translate for my social media personality. 

When my supervisor originally asked me to start a Twitter account so I could be engaged in the world of social media more than with Facebook (which was all the craze back in the day), I was hesitant.  I am not one for short remarks in any fashion, preferring rather to have my say in long paragraphs.  But not wanting to “miss out” on the newest social media craze, I started my Twitter, wrote a few tweets, and then promptly forgot about it.  I would check on it from time to time, but saw nothing that would make me believe that THIS was the communication tool of the future.  I had 15 followers, all friends, who, out of the goodness in their hearts, had followed my pitiful attempt at tweeting to make me feel better.

So many months and only a handful of tweets later, my Twitter account sat largely unused and forgotten.  But then something happened. As I was trolling (real term) around on Tumblr to try to find things to repost for our youth website CarolinaTeenHealth.org, I found a tweet from an actor. Not an uncommon find on Tumblr, and I read it. This actor was participating in the UNICEF “Live Below the Line” challenge where people are asked to live on food for under $1.50 a day. This was to increase awareness and change attitudes for the millions of people in the world who live below the poverty line every day. As someone who grew up below the poverty line, this project intrigued me, as did the names attached to the “pace setter” campaign of “Live Below the Line.” Actors, models, celebrities-all giving up eating at high-priced restaurants and leaving the Starbucks alone was quite admirable in many ways, especially in an occupation where “appearance is everything.” I wanted to find out more, so I went to this actors Twitter page to see how he was raising awareness (and money) during this project. 

When I got there, I realized that this project, and more specifically, his undertaking of the project, was dividing his very large fan base (when I arrived on his page, I was not remiss in noticing his almost 500,000 followers -- I still had only 30). Some folks were encouraged that he was doing something “so selfless” while others were appalled at the gall of this well-heeled young man taking something on that could only be seen as a poor attempt at living “below the line.” After all, didn’t he still have a very nice home, a very nice car, and a very nice actor’s salary?

I cannot say what possessed me to do it, but I wanted to help. I wanted to give him some information that he could actually use to inform what his actions were, how they could be really effective given the right talking points, and educate him on how to truly make a difference if he were really interested in making a change in the world.

So I tweeted him. Little old me, in the middle of South Carolina, to a man living in London and making movies I had seen in movie theatres. I sent him a tweet about the documentary Unnatural Causes, which describes in detail how health disparities are directly related to wealth disparities. And then I waited. For what to happen, I don’t know. 

As a day passed, I realized that when someone has 500,000 followers, the chances of them seeing your actual tweet sent to them is minimal, and probably idiotic, but I had done it.  And that made me feel empowered.  They say, “reach one, teach one” and I had done that. Through no fault of my own, my message may have been lost, but I had tried to get information out there.  It was then that I decided to make a point to send this actor a resource to educate himself about poverty, programs to end poverty, and the importance of research & data, to, as I said in my tweets, “#makethemoneywork.”  So for five days, I tweeted an ACTOR with TED talks, links to articles, and anything else I thought might help him make a difference with his campaign.

In the end, he never retweeted my resources or replied, but I realized that it didn’t matter. I had found my social media voice. And it was one that I could use to educate anyone who would listen about matters that were important to me. I found my voice in my passion for causes and my desire to change the world.

This is what we need to teach our young people about social media.  Yes, Facebook is a great way to keep up with friends, and Twitter is an amazing tool to find out about the goings on in the world with up to the SECOND coverage. But using your voice to share your passion and your beliefs, is one of the best ways to use social media. Our young people’s voices are as important as ours to be shared on social media. And mine, mine was as important as an actor’s.



I write to you now and am happy to say I have recently passed the 200 tweet mark on my twitter account. Not all of them have been educational, some have just been funny. But my 67 follower family seems to be responding, and I can’t wait to see how many I can reach from here.


by:  Taylor Wilson, Communications Specialist, SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy

Saturday, May 4, 2013

We are coming to your town!

May is a special month for the SC Campaign because this is the month we honor National Teen Pregnancy Prevention. In 2013, we will be coming to your community during our May Road Show. Take a look below at just some of the events that will be happening over the next two weeks!

May 6th, 2013
12:00-2:00PM Cherokee County Lunch & Learn
                         Sagebrush Steakhouse
                         1541 West Floyd Baker Blvd.
                         Gaffney, SC 29341

3:30PM            Union County Youth Summit
                         McBeth Baptist Church
                         105 Lawson Ave.
                         Union, SC 29379

May 7th, 2013
8:30-10:00AM York County Community Breakfast
                          Thi's Place on Main
                          210 E. Main Street
                          Rock Hill, SC 29730
  
12:00-2:00PM  Marlboro County Lunch & Learn
                          Genesis Family Restaurant
                          516 Cheraw St.
                          Bennettsville, SC 29512

May 11th, 2013
10:00AM          Alledale CooterFest Parade 2013
                          Allendale, SC

May 14th, 2013
8:00-10:00AM Breakfast with Leaders in Greenville
                          One Liberty Square Building
                          17th Floor
                          Greenville, SC 29601

4:30PM            SC Legislative Black Caucus
                         427 Blatt Building
                         Columbia, SC

May 17th, 2013
4:00-5:30PM Conway Library National Quiz
                       801 Main St.
                       Conway, SC 29526

6:30-8:30PM Bowl-a-thon
                      1732 Bush River Rd.
                      Columbia, SC 29210

May 18th, 2013
8:00AM         Walk-a-thon
                       710 W. Dekalb St.
                       Camden, SC

Stay tuned to your local radio and TV stations for appearances by SC Campaign CEO Forrest Alton, along with stories about other local events for Teen Pregnancy Prevention Month. We hope to see you around YOUR town soon!

For more information, click here to visit our May Road Show webpage.


by: South Carolina Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Redefining Childhood for Our Children


I know I'm not a parent so I don't know what it's like to have a daughter growing up in today's world. But it breaks my heart when parents of beautiful 13- and 14-year-old daughters allow their kids to wear shorts with their rear ends hanging out, skirts and dresses so short we have to hope for a windless day, or shirts that outline every detail of their changing bodies. Women have to deal with being ogled and aware of the response we will get with every inch of skin we show. Our CHILDREN should not have to deal with that. And they certainly shouldn't be putting pictures of themselves dressed in swimsuits, booty shorts, etc. on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram. We live in a tainted world and are as naive as these 13 year olds if we don't recognize that we have a role to play in keeping them safe.

Allow your children and pre-teens to enjoy being young. They'll have plenty of time to worry about being hot or sexy. It's okay for them to be beautiful, smart and modest at the same time. Show them they are worth more than their bodies and that they should be valued for all they have to offer - which is much more than a cup size or flat abs.

All of this holds true for 15, 16, even 37 year olds, but your children need to learn these things from you now so they will believe these things about themselves later.

That is all.

by Dana Becker, Spartanburg Community Specialist, SC Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy

Saturday, April 27, 2013

A Pledge to Put our Children First



I’m guilty.  My husband is guilty.  I think we are all guilty to some degree. 

As I was reviewing an infographic this morning on the Digital World of Teens (http://visual.ly/digital-world-teens), I came across a statistic that really hit me in the heart.  21% of all teens say they wish their parents spent less time with their cell phones and other devices.  While I don’t have a teen at home, I am pretty sure that even 3 year olds feel this way.  I can remember multiple times when Lucas has said put your phone away mommy, or even times when he takes my phone and chunks it on the ground – which at the time I chalked up to a rebellious toddler, but after reading this statistic, I think he too is just sick of mommy and daddy always being “plugged in.”

If I remember back to my childhood, when I was at the dinner table with my parents or even sitting down to watch a program on TV, I wasn’t competing with an iPhone, iPad, lap top, etc.  No, I had their undivided attention.  It was our time to talk about our day, re-cap the basketball game from the night before, discuss an upcoming school assignment, or catch them up on the latest with my friends.  Today’s teens (and toddlers for that matter) don’t always have that undivided attention from their parents because they are competing against technology.  “Well, I just need to check my email really quick.”  Or, “this call will only take a minute.”  Or, “let me text him back, it’s important.”  What’s more important than time with our children?  Time that we will never get back?  I can write this blog without being hypocritical because I have owned up to the fact that I am guilty.  But, from this day forward, I want to pledge to do better.  I need to set an example for my son when it comes to technology, and to date, I don’t think my husband and I have been the best examples in this area.  As a working mom, I have to realize that my time with my son needs to be spent fully with my son.  That email can wait.  That text can wait.  My son’s childhood will not wait.  As I have already seen, the days, months and years go by way too fast.

Will you take a pledge with me?  A pledge to put our children before technology.  Certainly, there are going to be times where we do need to do a little work from home or return a text to a friend because it truly cannot wait, but let’s pledge to make those times the exception and not the rule.